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neither21

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« on: December 05, 2011, 09:56:58 AM »
I decided to delete my facebook account a while ago, spend less time on the internet, and to stop masturbating. I decided that I was going to only masturbate when I really needed to, and I would STOP watching porn. I also started lifting weights at this time and taking 6 fish oils a day.

Results?: I became much more assertive/sexual/aggressive. My dick became harder and I would stay hard sometimes even after cumming...or if I didn't I could get it back up very easily. I stayed after work and met a girl and took her home that night (my first time doing so)! And now we are still hooking up...a lot.

NOT masturbating has been a great thing in my life. I didn't do it too often before that, maybe 2-5x a week, but stopping entirely shifted my personality quite a bit. And approaching is easier! And I hardly ever feel intimidated by anyone.

There is a subReddit dedicated to Nofap. link: http://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/

It's awesome reading guys' stories about how their lives have changed. They have competitions like nofap november, and they talk about biology-related things like "The Coolidge Effect." http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Coolidge_effect

Check it out, try it out. What've you got to lose? you can always go back to fapping. But it's when you know that the only way you're gonna get your nut is by going out and finding a girl that you become very motivated to do so.

I told my friend/colleague who is in a LTR about this and he decided to stop fapping. His sex life was dwindling before but now he is DRILLING his girlfriend and going nuts and they both love it. She gave him a blowjob for the first time in a year, so I guess his increased sexuality/libido is affecting her to. I've noticed that as well, and it's pretty obvious. Of course if I act more sexual without waiting for permission then it's going to trigger other people to act more sexual. Some (very few in my opinion) might be deterred, but it's a good screen!

EDIT: Read this! http://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/n0whb/past_100_days_some_random_events_and_a_farewell/
« Last Edit: December 05, 2011, 10:00:07 AM by neither21 »

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Re: Nofap
« Reply #1 on: December 05, 2011, 10:46:51 AM »
I've tried to convert some people. They thought I was crazy :P They don't have the willpower or they don't believe how it can work for a person. Maybe it's placebo maybe not. but I always need like a week at least to get back to energy from masturbation orgasm. After that week it gets even better, around the 2 week mark I am stable perceiving girls how they should be perceived.

I sometimes do fap, but it's on my weak moments when I am hungover / drunk /

The endorphins are amazing though, but dont last that long :D Not really worth it. Save the energy for a girl :)

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Re: Nofap
« Reply #2 on: December 05, 2011, 04:32:05 PM »
Is the idea of nofap not ejaculating, or having an orgasm?

Would consistent sex with ejaculation be the same as fapping?

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Re: Nofap
« Reply #3 on: December 05, 2011, 05:21:18 PM »
I'm in. I'll see how it goes :)

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« Reply #4 on: December 05, 2011, 05:38:43 PM »
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Is the idea of nofap not ejaculating, or having an orgasm?

Would consistent sex with ejaculation be the same as fapping?

Depends on what you're going for. If you're going for the personality change, I would suggest just not ejaculating, including sex. I am having consistent sex now and don't notice as much aggression. The hyper-sexuality is still there, though (I don't know if I would call it hypersexuality or moreso just a "de-numbing" process).

If you're going for the motivation to go get laid, then just don't fap but allow yourself to orgasm during sex. This is a positive reward for you going out and being social, which makes you more likely to do it in the future.

Basically, the thought "MUST EJACULATE...BUT I CAN'T FAP!!!" is a huge motivator to go approach people in a confident, sexual way. remember, though, to be non-needy.

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I'm in. I'll see how it goes :)

Keep us updated! would love to hear the results of your experiment. I think I am going to go all December without fapping.

Oh, one thing, you're liable to have some wetdreams. And your balls will be bigger. and your erections will be harder. And you'll be having more NARBs (no apparent reason boners). And when you do have said boner, you'll feel a strong urge to tear something's head off and fuck it.

Buy some fishoil, too. Take 6-8 a day.
« Last Edit: December 05, 2011, 05:45:27 PM by neither21 »

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Re: Nofap
« Reply #5 on: December 05, 2011, 05:43:00 PM »
Oh, one thing, you're liable to have some wetdreams. And your balls will be bigger. And you'll be having more NARBs (no apparent reason boners). And when you do have said boner, you'll feel a strong urge to tear something's head off and fuck it.

I am prepared for this. Should make for some great stories.

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Re: Nofap
« Reply #6 on: December 06, 2011, 03:13:52 AM »
I've posted about this before, but I'll post it again.

I've found masturbating without cumming has the same effect (random boners, increased horniness, etc.).

In fact, I think it may stimulate the production of semen as well and might speed up the process.

It does take quite a bit of self-control.

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Re: Nofap
« Reply #7 on: December 06, 2011, 03:54:02 AM »
The no-wanking experiment, for me, manifested itself as anger towards other people rather than horniness. This was most likely because I still had blocks on approaching women at the time. My point is that that energy is going to flow somewhere -- if there's a block on women, expect it to manifest in other ways ;)

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« Reply #8 on: December 06, 2011, 11:07:15 AM »

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« Reply #9 on: December 06, 2011, 02:46:24 PM »
You guys make me want to give this another try... I've gone without fapping for three or four weeks before, but don't really remember exactly how I felt. I DO remember that I felt VERY different.

I will do at least 30 days and then see if I want to continue. I think my last wank was on Sunday, so today is day two.

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« Reply #10 on: December 06, 2011, 03:26:00 PM »
The thing about nofapping is that I fear once I get inside a girl I might cum way before time...

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Re: Nofap
« Reply #11 on: December 06, 2011, 03:35:07 PM »
The thing about nofapping is that I fear once I get inside a girl I might cum way before time...

True, but don't fear it.

I was premature when I first started having sex and I whacked off all the time. Nowadays I don't worry about it, wear a condom, and last as long as I want usually.

Could it happen, maybe. But I rather worry about it after it happens.

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« Reply #12 on: December 06, 2011, 07:13:25 PM »
I don't worry about cumming too quickly. Part of the reason is that I struggled with anorgasmia (not being able to cum) in the past.

Even if you DO cum more quickly than you'd like, you can always just take a nap and go for round 2 later. Round 2 is almost always a marathon.

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« Reply #13 on: December 07, 2011, 01:00:59 AM »
i'm definitly starting the no fap again... I've done it before and always felt so powerful whilst retaining my load... the state of well being, motivation and all the other benefits, far outweigh the 8 seconds of orgasm pleasure you get from masturbation... that being said, i'll still be fuckin ladies when the opportunity arises (which will be much more often after a few weeks being the master of my domain;p)...
 it's interesting to note, that in traditional Chinese medicine (and other eastern schools of thought) the reason men tend to die sooner than woman on average, is because they are constantly expelling their life energy (semen), draining away their life force, food for thought... i'm also going to start supplementing with with some adaptogenic and libido enhancing herbs i made tinctures of, a while back, rhodelia rosea, Muirana Punama, catuaba, avena sativa, lobelia, north american ginseng and a bit of licorice root, i've used these herbs before, while on the masturbation wagon with great success in keeping me horny and healthy, it'll be fun to see just how much libidinal energy i can muster inside of me while taking them while not masturbating... then i can redirect/trans-mutate said energy, into some useful directions:)

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Re: Nofap
« Reply #14 on: December 07, 2011, 03:41:11 AM »
http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=138995133

I read the first paragraph, saw that the guy had misinterpreted the Coolidge effect entirely, and closed the window, since his post is on faulty foundations to begin with.


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